Hello, I'm a 38 year old single woman with an attraction to men who are amputees or paraplegics. I am especially attracted to men who use manual wheelchairs. This attraction has been a part of me since I was a very young girl and I have no idea why. Lots of people have theories about it though none of them are particularly flattering or fitting in my case.

Many have suggested it's because I'm a secret dominatrix and I'm looking for a weak man to dominate. I'm not. I actually tried the dominatrix thing once... hated every minute of it! I'm the least decisive person I know and I was terrible at it. I want an equal partnership.

A few others have suggested that I was frightened by a person with a disability when I was a child and that caused me to somehow sexualize the thing that scared me... I don't recall such an event. I was scared of Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny as a very young child though... they don't do a thing for me now but that's got me vaguely wonder if there are actually Kris Kringle fetishists out there! That'd be interesting!

A third group insists I'm just out to take money from men with disabilities. Given the enormous numbers of unemployed people with disabilities, this notion is preposterous as well as wildly insulting! The notion of me as criminal mastermind is even more ridiculous if you know me. I earn my own money and I have no need to steal anyone else's.

When you boil it down though, it really doesn't matter why I'm like this. I am a devotee or admirer if you prefer and I'm looking for a man with whom I can share my life... nothing more and nothing less.